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An adoption, whether it’s kinship, agency, or stepparent adoption, always involves terminating the biological parents’ rights and creating a new legal family relationship.
In contrast, foster care is usually a temporary arrangement, often overseen by an agency, where a family or individual cares for a child without gaining legal parental rights. Foster parents provide care while the agency works with the biological parents to either help them improve their situation or make decisions about terminating their parental rights and possibly moving forward with adoption.
Kinship adoption differs significantly from foster care because it legally establishes the caregiver, often a relative, as the child’s permanent parent.
Guardianship, on the other hand, allows someone to be appointed to legally make decisions for the child, such as medical or educational choices, but does not make that person the child’s legal parent.
A guardian’s powers are defined by statute and typically include the ability to make decisions about a child’s medical care, education, and living arrangements, unless a court order limits those powers. Under a guardianship, the birth parents still retain their rights, which means if they can demonstrate they’re able to care for their child again, they can petition the court to regain custody.
Adoption is completely different. When an adoption is finalized, the birth parents’ rights are permanently terminated. They cannot come back later and reclaim custody or undo the adoption. That finality is a major distinction between adoption and guardianship.
With kinship adoptions, especially when a grandparent is stepping in, there’s often a lot of emotional complexity involved. Some grandparents initially prefer guardianship because they’re hopeful the birth parents will recover and resume parenting. In those cases, guardianship allows them to care for the child without permanently cutting off the parent’s rights.
When someone comes to me with this kind of situation, the first step I take is to gather all of the details. These cases are fact-sensitive, and it’s crucial to have a thorough understanding of the best path forward. I ask how long they’ve had the child, how old the child was when they first took custody, and the circumstances under which they obtained the child in the first place.
Once I have a full picture, I can walk my clients through the pros and cons of guardianship vs. adoption and help them determine what is best for the child and their unique situation.
The transition from guardianship to kinship adoption is not uncommon, especially with grandparents who step in after an emergency or crisis of some kind. Maybe a daughter is hospitalized due to an overdose, and the grandparents need to step in and care for the children right away. In those situations, custody or guardianship will usually result as a temporary solution to get the children safe and stable as quickly as possible.
Over time, if the grandparent or relative has had the child for several years, and the biological parent is still struggling, then yes, many families start to think about permanency. They want to ensure their child has the most stability, and typically, they recognize that guardianship isn’t always enough.
Grandparents love their children deeply. I have six of my own, and I often joke with my children that if I had to choose, I’d pick my grandkids every time. That kind of love is what drives many grandparents to step in during a crisis because they want to protect their grandchildren.
Once a family has decided to pursue adoption, the legal process is generally the same across the board. The first step is always to terminate the birth parents’ rights. Only after that step is complete are we able to move on and proceed with finalizing the adoption.
Of course, we have to look at whether or not we have legal grounds to terminate parental rights. That involves evaluating whether the birth parents are willing to consent or if we have sufficient grounds to move forward without their consent. Every case is fact-specific, so it’s essential to review all the details carefully.
I always stress to adoptive families: please don’t attempt to go through this process alone. You need to talk to an attorney before making any moves.
I’ve seen situations where someone thinks they’re helping by calling the birth father directly, someone who they haven’t heard from in a year, to ask if he’ll agree to an adoption. Suddenly, they’ve made him angry, and he runs to family court and files a custody petition. An innocent gesture has now caused the entire adoption process to be unnecessarily stalled.
The golden rule throughout all adoption cases is don’t disrupt the status quo before getting legal advice. Anything you do without experienced legal counsel will only cause delays or create complications.
One kinship adoption that really stands out happened within the past year. A grandmother had been raising her grandson since he was just two years old. By the time he turned 14, both of his birth parents, who were struggling with long-term addiction, had sadly passed away. The young boy had spent nearly his entire life in his grandmother’s care. She was a single grandmother, and for him, had always been his mom.
When we finalized the adoption, he had to testify in court because he was over 12 years old. Watching him share the love he had for the woman who raised him was incredibly moving. He spoke from the heart about how she had always been there for him, how her love and care had shaped his life, and how he couldn’t imagine his life without her guidance. Everyone in the courtroom was in tears.
These are the kinds of cases that really show the power of kinship adoption. When relatives step up to the plate, it’s such an act of sacrifice and love. It’s a privilege for me to accompany the families on these journeys because you really get to see a difference being made.
For more information on kinship adoption in Pennsylvania, an initial consultation is your next best step. Get the information and legal answers you are seeking by calling (412) 276-4200 today.